tree-wide: patchelf used during build -> nativeBuildInputs

In a few cases it wasn't clear so I left them as-is.

While visiting these moved other things to nativeBuildInputs
when it was clear they were one of these cases:

* makeWrapper
* archive utilities (in order to unpack src)
  * a few of these might no longer be needed but leaving for another day

pkgs/applications/networking/spideroak/default.nix

@@ -57,7 +57,7 @@ in stdenv.mkDerivation {
     sed -i 's/^Exec=.*/Exec=spideroak/' $out/share/applications/SpiderOakONE.desktop
   '';
 
-  buildInputs = [ patchelf makeWrapper ];
+  nativeBuildInputs = [ patchelf makeWrapper ];
 
   meta = {
     homepage = https://spideroak.com;