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A letter from a Craft sister in Texas
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A job transfer had moved us 1200 miles. The hardest thing to
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deal with was the isolation. No one in our home Circle had
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contacts in the new town. Instead of lessons twice a month, and
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the loving safety net of our circle, we had each other, phone
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calls, and homesick letters. We were suddenly involuntary
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solitaires. We had to find new ways to deal with things.
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Holidays, once filled with an extended family of 25 or more, are
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a trifle flat when the turkey only has to feed two. So we
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volunteered to work at a charity dinner for senior citizens, and
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I wore my pentagram tucked inside my shirt. As I was pouring
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coffee for one of the guests, it fell out.
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She: "Is that what I think it is?" (pointing)
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Me: "Yes, Ma'am."
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She: "But if you're a...I mean... What are you doing here?"
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Me: "My religion teaches me to value and respect others;
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and the elderly are our memories."
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She nodded and went back to her meal. Next time someone tries to
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tell her that witches are evil, it will be my face she remembers.
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Finally we met another group, and shared a Circle for the first
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time in months. It felt like coming home. Later, it turned out
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one of our newfound friends knew a lonely solitary in our home
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town. In the same city where we know four covens, countless
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solitaires, and a rich Pagan social life, she is alone. She
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can't find anyone, and the isolation is painful.
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Excuse me while I get on my soapbox.
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This has gone on long enough. I am tired of hearing the Lady's
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name spoken in whispers. I am tired of pretending, tired of
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hiding, sick unto death of knowing Pagan parents must teach their
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children to hide. As I write, it is March '87. I am about to
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put to paper my favorite "gee-if-only." Indulge me. Join me.
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Dream along.
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Let it begin small. The first year, we will all agree on some
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recognition symbol; a green button. Anytime you see someone else
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wearing a blank green button, you'll know this person is a fellow
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Pagan, one who has read this and shares the dream. (I hope
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you'll share it as well: start by finding someone with a button-
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maker, and become your local supplier.) Anytime you see someone
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wearing a blank green button, give them your name and address and
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get theirs too. This is called "networking" _ and suggest they
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send their address also to us at "Come from the Shadows".
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Pass the word. Every time you talk to a friend who's in the
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Craft, share the dream. Make sure they get a button, too.
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The second year we change our blank buttons for ones that say
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"I.P.T." That's the easy part. We only intensify our work.
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Kindred, our neighbors are afraid of us. It is a fear born of
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misinformation and it will continue only as long as we permit it.
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The second year we work to raise public awareness, challenging
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stereotypes. That means we all get to do our part, with articles
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like this, with letters to the editor politely responding to
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silly Halloween articles, and with volunteer work. We walk a
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Path that teaches the Threefold Law; let's start putting some
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time, energy, and love into our towns. Answer the crisis phone
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line, visit the elderly, donate books on the Craft to the
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library, become an active member of your community.
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And in your spare moments, print and distribute the buttons for
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the big day. Let's dream big: let's plan on Winder Solstice of
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1990. The buttons would be available all the preceding year at
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our rituals, bookstores, lectures, etc., distributed and put away
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until the appointed time.
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Here's my dream, see it with me.
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She's a para-legal, and after three years of preparation, she's
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still very scared. Meditation helps. She pins the button, kept
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on her alter for months, to her blouse. Her phone rings. A
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friend across the city needs encouragement. Reassuring him
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reassures her. She walks out to her car with her head held high.
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He's a telephone lineman. He pins the button on his workshirt,
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helps his second-grader pin one on as well. "Let's do it," he
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says, and they smile. from the door, his wife calls, "Good
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luck!"
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A couple exchange kisses in the driveway. The buttons clatter
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together. He gets into his car, headed for the shipyard. She
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drives the other way, headed for the university.
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They aren't alone. Winter Solstice has dawned bright and clear,
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and across the country every Pagan we could reach in three years
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is taking part. This is the day it all pays off, the networking,
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the community work, the countless rituals for healing and
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understanding. It's solstice Morning and they have walked out of
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their doors to go about their daily routine wearing buttons that
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say:
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I'm Pagan too!
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Come from the Shadows
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How many? Estimates of the number of Pagans in this country
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vary, but thousands at the very least. Can you see it?
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The para-legal and the parking attendant exchange shocked
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glances. The telephone lineman takes a service call and the
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farmer who answers the door is wearing a button. His wife gives
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her "extra" button to a woman in the grocery store _ a solitaire,
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somehow missed by the networking efforts, she is close to tears
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when she realizes that she is not alone. The shipyard engineer
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counts buttons in rush hour traffic, while his wife loses count
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on campus before lunch.
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The media go crazy, interviewing people all over the place. The
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public are suddenly aware of the Pagans in their midst, not as
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isolated freaks but as a group. We are not the faceless enemy --
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we are their neighbors, their coworkers. We are their league
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coaches, their Red Cross volunteers. We are citizens concerned
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about our towns, our country, our planet. We are contributing to
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the care of our fellow wo/man and asking for the right to worship
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as we choose.
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We are the children of the Earth and the Sky come home, re-
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claiming our right to walk in the sunlight. "Enough. It is
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time."
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Pleas send comments, suggestions, etc. to:
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Come from the Shadows, c/o B.C. Fogle
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2041 1st Street East #118, RAFB, Texas 78150
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